First Messages

The first message you send on an online dating site is critical. I repeat. The first message you send on an online dating site is critical. If you see someone that you find attractive and that you would actually like to get to know, then you should send a good first message to that person. You should NOT send a lackluster message. Exhibit A:

As you can see, this first message sucks. I sent an equally sucky response. 

What makes a good first message? A good first message is a message that shows real interest in the person, is engaging, and is at least somewhat interesting. Was there something that you liked about that person's profile? Do you share the same interests? Make it known! A simple "Hi" does not cut it. It's boring. It's outdated.

It sucks.